Comphet vs Attraction
The Attraction & Alignment Navigator ✨
When you imagine a hypothetical future living with a man, how do you feel? 👫
How do you feel about a future with a woman? 👩❤️👩
How do you feel about a future with a woman? 👭
Are your crushes only on fictional men, celebrities, or men you can't actually be with? 🎬
Identity: Straight 👫 ✨
Your attraction to men feels comfortable and reassuring. You likely view your feelings for women as purely platonic or artistic interest.
Identity: Bisexual or Pansexual 💖💜💙
You experience genuine attraction to multiple genders! Your feelings for men feel "right," and your feelings for women are just as real and emotional.
Identity: Lesbian 🧡🤍💜 👭
You may be a lesbian if your attraction to women feels powerful while a future with a man feels upsetting or wrong. You deserve to prioritize your happiness!
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